SHOULD WE CELEBRATE HUMAN RIGHTS DAY?
Did you see Mr. Gay South Africa™ win Mr. Gay World in the news last week? No? Neither did I.
Many South Africans celebrated Human Rights Day in South Africa on Monday 21 March, but I wasn’t one of them.
Why? Because despite our Constitutional provisions of equality and democracy and human rights, I am still part of a minority group which is discriminated against, and whose concerns are sidelined by the lack of interest of others who like to look down on myself and those like me – and who view our existence and achievements as an embarrassment or, at best, uninteresting.
I’m talking about the consistent unconstitutional acts of the SA Government at the UN in either actively opposing or abstaining from decisions aimed at enhancing the human rights of the Pink Community. And back at home, it claims that those active in providing awareness of these acts or omissions are part of a “misinformation campaign”.
There’s the the continued refusal of the government to withdraw a homophobic columnist appointed by President Zuma as ambassador to Uganda where draconian anti-gay enactments are pending; the continued failure of the government to integrate the provisions of the SA Constitution protecting LGBTI human rights in its foreign policy; the government’s persistence in spending South African tax money and resources on assisting countries which attach no value to the human rights of the Pink Community; the fact that two tiny lunatic fringe political parties (ACDP and FF+) holding seven parliamentary seats out of over 400 could derail a parliamentary motion of congratulations; the near news black-out by especially print media of the remarkable feat of winning Mr. Gay World twice AND being awarded the hosting for 2012.
It seems the bulk of the South African press haven’t allowed any coverage of the Mr. Gay World win. I say ‘allowed’, because while all the main papers were notified of Francois Nel’s prestigious achievement in winning the title, and the team’s coup in bringing home the rights for South Africa to host next year’s contest in Johannesburg, very few responded to the organisers to ask for details in order to write a story about it.
“Is our news not good enough to be shared with the rest of the country? Are our achievements not meaningful or impressive enough to inspire all South Africans?”
So far, only one or two articles have appeared in, surprisingly, local Bloemfontein newspapers, while mention appears to have been made only on ETV News (and that because of the ACDP angle, not the win itself) and two radio stations. And yet, papers are carrying on business as usual.
Instead, Rapport is still publishing religious propaganda about that homophobic preacher with the silly hat, Angus Buchan, appearing in Paarl – as if it is actual news. It seems to me the poor reporters who did ask for details about the Mr. Gay World contest might have actually written the stories (they confirmed receipt of the information) but still no articles appeared; were the stories killed by their management?
I am reminded of 2009’s Pink Jacaranda Music Festival in Pretoria, when the Beeld published a large picture in full colour of two men in Voortrekker dresses on page two, and focused on the negative remarks made by a small group that probably would be more at home in Orania than in our supposedly enlightened post-apartheid South Africa, which seems ever in danger of having bits torn out of its Constitution.
The festival hosted celebrated artists like Karin Zoid and Elzabé Zietsman, but this was ignored in favour of highlighting how “unacceptable” and “un-patriotic” it was to allow the Pink Community to host an event at an Afrikaner landmark. As usual, the press chose to ignore the positive in favour of the negative.
Likewise, in this case, South Africa has won a contest for the second time consecutively in the second year of its participation – quite a remarkable achievement – and also won the right to host Mr Gay World next year – against the mighty USA. When you consider that other Western countries like Spain, Australia, New Zealand, and the USA were in the final top five of the Mr. Gay World title, it is simply astonishing seeing that South Africa also won the previous year – only the second time in the history of the major international titles (Venezuela won Miss Universe in 2008 and 2009).
Is our news not good enough to be shared with the rest of the country? Are our achievements not meaningful or impressive enough to inspire all South Africans? Are we not human enough, alongside other South Africans, to have a reason to celebrate Human Rights Day in South Africa?
This continued sidelining and ignoring of our community by the media is hurtful and unacceptable, and I hope the Pink Community voices its feelings on this exclusion to the press.
PS – In the light of the apparent news media blackout in the coverage of the recent Mr. Gay SA and Mr. Gay World triumphs, it seems only appropriate to give credit where it is due. While most news outlets have opted to ignore the newsmakers in the Pink Community, there are the few who have reported the news without bias and without the tint of prejudice. For this, we wish to convey our heartfelt appreciation and thanks.
The reality of SA. The reality of the matter is, when NEWS24 published the article online, the general comments of users were in the line of “…why is this an achievement to SA…this is a disgrace…bloody faggots…”
Even if we are protected by our Constitution, the society in SA do not accept the gay & lesbien society and our lifestyle and never will…not in our lifetime.
Defeatist. That is a defeatist attitude. Our rights which we have did not come about by this defeatist type of attitude nor by complacency
whatever. a fact is a fact…
SA. Never fear SA is riddled with scum but never met a gay person who is not kind gentle and sweet !!!!
SA. The reality of south africa is that the majority of the population are revolting parasites – well done to the winner!
Get over yourselves. The one reason would be because you not inclusive enough maybe?
TYo be gay in this country is still a white thing… and now you all want to throw your toys because this white gay man wasnt congratulated?
Oh please… go fight for equality, fairness and inclusiveness within the gay community first before you go get a wet spot!
You all make me sick… you want to complain about mentioning.. go GAGA over a stupid new gay flag that bears no design technique at all and get more attention than the corrective rape victims in the gay circles and you wonder why we have issues?
We have to get of the habit of ignoring our own internal issues, racial divide is a BIG problem within the gay community, remedy that first and stop sugar coating it to exempt yourselves from the prejudices of our own community.
The Mr. Gay World isnt even really a class act within itself… and please enlighten me as to how the previous Mr GSA/GW has inspired your average closetted males to be who they are? has he ever marched with in support of those who were slained due to homophobia/corrective rape? Instead he wants to prounce around attending Fabulous balls and events, thinking that is his mission…
The whole affair is a joke, quite frankly. So go and fight a cause that worth the effort, start at home, by looking in the mirror and making that change in attitude, behaviour and in kind.
And??. Forget the competition – what about about the consistent unconstitutional acts of the SA Government at the UN?
What rubbish. You enjoy rights in this country that people accross this continent would kill for and do die for, year in year out and yet you will not support Human Rights Day because the press would not cover a beauty pageant, get your priorities right…
AND?. Forget the competition – what about about the consistent unconstitutional acts of the SA Government at the UN?
SA. Shakespeares Hamlet, who suffered from melancholia, expressed the sentiment ? “how weary, stale, flat and unprofitable seem to me the workings of this world. ( SCUM SA ) It is an unweeded garden and things rank and gross in nature possess it merely”
OVER REACTING. Once again the gay community has taken this small little matter and blown it up into HUGE proportions! Why on earth would you want to BITCH about something like this? Why does some queen always have to see something negative in something as positive as this and then have to write a very long boring article making accusations and going on as if the whole world is negative towards gay people??
Christina, honey, please relax your cheeks sweetie, and no, i’m not talking about the ones on your face! Be glad that there is something like a Mr. Gay World peagant, that we were able to send a contender and that the judges crowned him the winner! What more do you want?
Of course the mainstream papers and publications won’t report about this, as we homosexuals are the minority of the readers!!!
Maybe you should stop wasting your time complaining about this, and actually start a publication for the gay people to keep us all up to date with things such as these.
I beg to differ. I beg to differ – see this letter in Times Live:
‘You need not be gay to be proud of this success
Cate Butler, by e-mail: In the Mr Gay World competition, South Africa won and not only did we win but South Africa was chosen to host the event next year.
This is amazing considering the competition our country was up against. Yet it has barely been mentioned. As a lesbian, I am a part of a community outraged at this media blackout.
I will probably read about the winner and competition in one of the monthly gay magazines. It is unacceptable that as a proud gay woman I have to buy a magazine for gay people to read when a gay person does something outstanding.
Our country won an international event. That is news. You don’t have to be gay to be proud of it. You can be South African and be proud of this achievement.
Proud or not, not everyone will agree that it’s something to be commended (homophobia is rife) but it is news and it should be reported as such and let the masses take it from there.
As a proud lesbian woman. I think pageants are stupid and degrading and it disgusts me that as a person who claims to speak for the gay and lesbian community Ms Engela feels that of all the issues that need attention in our society this was the most important.
This story is a joke…
And. Forget the competition – what about about the consistent unconstitutional acts of the SA Government at the UN?
Very important. but it takes up one tiny paragraph of the statement, the LGEP put out a far better statement on the UN vote that was far more detailed and in depth and didnt feel the need to stick in the middle of a whinge about a beauty pageant not getting enough media attention…
how?. and my dear, how did they win it?
By exploiting black culture, use african singers as the background and dancers, when this very committee and its elective will never vote or place people gay men on its executive neither as a winner of the pageant!
So please, hardly something worth praising about *wink*
Hmmm. The winners of the Pta regional final were black – 1 and 2 – and there were 3 blacks in the final – and black judges all around and black photographer and black designer – no blacks?? Come again!
no news. BRAVO, KEEP UP TH E GOOD FIGHT
Ditto. Ditto
SA gays are spoilt. SA gays are spoilt – I see very few – on here – rejoicing that we have an international GAY event in SA … that’s just shameful.
SA. Congratulations just that SA is a scummy country in general
cautious. The issue of the pageant is superficially irrelevant , however bearing in mind the actions of our ambassaodr to the UN, comments by our former arts minister and our president amonst others, a a judicial system that doesn’t take corrective rape seriousy , a system that after over 30 attempts lacks the will to convict the mureders of a lesbian woman in Cape Town, and a homophobic ambassador ,we have serious poblem ssince the conservative Zuma took over.
Whilst some of us are lucky to live in relative security , many gays and lesbians are still forced to hide for fear of violence . Very little is being to assist with transformation society .
Never mind carry out the cnstitutional requirements for a progressive movement in Africa.
I think we are blinkered if we think all is rosy
Agreed – and. Agreed – and don’t you think that a competition like this will focus the attention of at least the gay world on Africa’s abuses of gays? I read what Francois said on his blog – and support his statements against corrective rape.
francoisnelmrgaysa2010.wordpress.com/
SA. SA and it’s constitution are pieces of paper !! If you look at the population they are greedy lazy useless parasites who could not give a damn about gay rights !
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Listen to Francois Nel’s interview here – from 26 min on (although the whole programme is good) Outspoken, Radio Today:
outspoken1485.podomatic.com/entry/2011-03-29T03_52_04-07_00
SA. Francois Nel is superb – he won the competition ! SA is a revolting nation in general !
SA. Shakespeares Hamlet, who suffered from melancholia, expressed the sentiment ? “how weary, stale, flat and unprofitable seem to me the workings of this world. ( SCUM SOUTH AFRICA ) It is an unweeded garden and things rank and gross in nature possess it merely”
SA. Just meaning he general population – revolting !
I love what you are saying. SA is still unapologetically intolerant and unaccepting of anything that is outside the “norm”. This will not change if the Pink community have resigned themselves to such ill treatmeant. Personally, I refuse, that’s why I am just going to be the Fight i want to see in others. Aluta Continua…
Mr GAY SA becomes Mr GAY WORLD. Firstly let me congratulate our Francois Nel fopr being the 2nd Mr GAY SA to be awarded this prestigious crown.WELL DONE sexy South African!!
Next, this matter of whether to celebrate Human Rights day or any of the other commemorative days on our calendar, is not about Francois’s achievement. This is a personal choice and we know that most folk just braai on said commemorative day and sleep in late- so we cannot choose to feel even more discrimination just because SABC did not cover this news.
Lets take our issues up more seriously work with NGO’s in the LGBTI sector to reverse the onslaught of Corrective Rape for instance. and lets celebrate Francios ourselves.
Love you Francois!!